Saturday, June 12, 2010

First Year Wrap-up

I did it. I enrolled for college and completed my first three courses most successfully. A "C" followed by an "A", and - while I have to wait for a day or so to make it official - an "A" to end the year. No trauma, but lots of work and more than a few stress tears. But more than that I proved to myself that a woman in her 50's is still as vibrant and smart as she was twenty years earlier. And you are too, if you are reading this blog.

There is a lovely quote from Isak Dinesen (she of the Out of Africa fame)that goes, "Women, when they are old enough to have done with the business of being women, and can let loose their their strength, may be the most powerful creatures in the world." And, while we may never really are "done" with the fun of being a girl, we know what she means. We get to a place in life where we are rock solid, don't beat around the bush, love fully and move on when things aren't right. When men reach that point in life when they are a bit insecure about leaving the "corporate nest," we are just getting good. It's by no means a criticism of our male partners, but I think that women have a lifetime of experiences where we are forced to juggle priorities and wear many hats. We cannot and are not given the luxury of having an easy path. Unlike men, who are often getting a little shaky as they approach their sixties or retirement age, many women feel more optimistic, independent, and more powerful. I know I do, and going back to college helped me feel that way. Powerful and energized.

So, I have a summer "off" from the text books and "on" with the novels and biographies. I also look forward to having lunch with friends and catch up with my extended family. But I'll check in all the same as I'm sure it will be an adventure. For now....

Cheers!
Ima

Sunday, June 6, 2010

It's Summer

Well, my first year of school (this time) is about over. Finals are here next week, and I feel very confident about my grades. I'm debating about taking a course online over the summer, but the thought of three months with nothing but one job looks pretty good right about now. But I will do something mentally stimulating over the summer no matter what, as I don't want all of this information to go totally dormant! But as I look back, I feel very proud of what I've accomplished and am even more certain that not only can I do this, but I can do it with distinction.

Here's to us "over 40's"...life sure aint over!
Cheers!
Ima